I Am Sick Of Society

I am sick of social judgement.
I am sick fulfilling others expectation.
I am sick thinking what I need to do to please everybody.
I am sick being told to do something that considered as "normal thing".

I am sick being asked when I will be married.

Well, tell me, how can I know? I know nothing. I don't know when I will be married. If people asked me "don't you have any target plan in what age you want to be married?", and I always answer them, "oh yes I had the plan, and I did not make it because if I made it, I should have been married at 25", which I am now over than 25.

I am sick being told that I am a picky person to choose life partner.
Now, tell me, society, what is your fucking background reason to judge me like that? If I met somebody, anybody that been introduced to me, and I did not feel the "click" even a bit, should I put myself on relationship that I don't want to? I won't.

I am sick being told that love can be built, that it will grow along the time.
Yes I heard that one. The answer is yes if your heart and your fucking brain tell you "Yes, he/she is the one. We know nothing about him/her but maybe this thing will work it out".

I am sick being told that if I am not married soon, I will get older and no man want me to be a wife.
Well, I don't know, society, you guys are probably right. Or maybe, this guy is not the right person for me. I even don't know if any right guy is destined for me. I am just fucking clueless.

Whenever I am being introduced to somebody, people always expect that things would run smoothly. But IT DOES NOT. It does not always run smoothly as you expected. And when it does not go as people expected, then people will BLAME ME because everything went wrong.

They said I am too picky. They said I am being arrogant. They said I am running out of time so I need to be married real quick.

That is why I always avoid any social gathering, seeing any relatives or friends who always come and ask sensitive and judgmental question.

Hey, society, you know what, your judgmental question and statement, is killing me. 

Jangan Nitip-Nitip, Plis

Gua sangat takjub dengan orang-orang yang kalo lagi traveling, lalu mereka buka jastip. Sungguh fenomenal. Mencengangkan buat gua. Lah kok mereka bisa banget?

Gua adalah pribadi yang MALES BANGET kalo ada orang yang NITIP sesuatu saat gua traveling. Sumpah, gua paling ga suka ada yang nitip ini lah, itu lah. Enggak banget.

Gua paling benci sama orang yang kalo udah nitip, LALU MAKSA dengan alih-alih "ah kan mumpung lu lagi disana, gua nitip dong beliin ituuuu....". Iya sih mumpung gua lagi traveling, tapi ya jangan maksa dong wey!

Gua adalah pribadi yang suka traveling untuk jalan ngeliat suasana sekitar, kayak misal ngeliat landscape, atau apapun best tourist spot di daerah itu. Jadi, kalo misalnya pun gua ada waktu kosong saat traveling, gua akan cari spot lain yang bisa gua kunjungi.

Di sisi lain, gua bukan orang yang demen-demen banget belanja. Kadang malah males. Kalau misalnya orang-orang pergi ke suatu tempat untuk berbelanja, nah kalo gua anaknya ya enggak kayak gitu. Mending cari aktivitas lain.

Tapi bukannya gua menghindar buat belanja. Kadang kalo ada toko yang tetiba menarik perhatian gua saat lagi jalan, ya gua berhenti buat liat-liat isi tokonya.

Pun bukannya gua menentang saat ada orang yang nitip sesuatu saat gua traveling. Ya boleh-boleh aja nitip, tapi orangnya harus ngerti kalau gua ga akan nyisihin waktu khusus buat ngebeliin barang yang mereka titip. Gua akan beli barang itu, kalau ternyata barang tersebut gua liat saat gua lagi jalan. Jadi gua ga bakal tuh nyishin waktu khusus buat nyari tokonya. Dan gua pasti ngomong begitu ke orang yang nitip, "iya gua beli kalo gua nemu ya....."

Karena menurut gua, kalau misalnya ada waktu kosong buat belanja barang yang bukan gua mau, mending waktu yang ada itu gue pake ke tempat yang gua pengen.

Kecuali gua emang pengen ke toko tersebut, dan ternyata temen gua nitip. Ya oke lah itu gua pasti beliin, karena gua ga perlu nyisihin waktu khusus. Tapi wes kalo nitip jangan banyak-banyak jugaaaaa.... SADAR DIRI, HEY, MANUSIA!!

Pernah suatu waktu gua jalan ke suatu negara. Nah beberapa temen gua nitip barang. Gua udah bilang sebelumnya kalau titipan mereka bakal gua beli kalo gua ketemu di jalan. Eh emang dasar rejeki tuh anak, pas gua lagi jalan gitu, ternyata tokonya ada di depan mata dan dengan jelas terpampang nyata. Nah, yaudah gua masuk toko itu, ngambil barang yang dia pengen, trus langsung bayar di kasir. Titip-menitip beginilah yang gua seneng. Pun temen gua ini gak ngoyo banget anaknya. Dia cuma bilang "ya kalo lo ketemu, beliin. Kalo ga nemu, ya ga usah". Kan asik ya, gua juga ga beban gitu.

Gua pun pas nemu tokonya langsung berasa takjub. Rejeki orang emang ga kemana ya.

Dan teruuuss... plis kalo mau nitip harus liat-liat juga barangnya. Apakah barang yang lu titip ukurannya besar? Atau malah berat? Kalau benar begitu, apakah tidak lebih baik Anda BERKACA DULU?!!

Tapi mungkin jastip beda ya. Kalo jastip kan dapet uwit.